The art of dealing with others
We spend a lot of time standing in the trading day
One study where it says that the individual spends nearly 70% of the time he woke up in touch with the world around him
Which is spent either reading .... Or write ... Or talk or listen ....
For example, we find that
For this reason, we find that many of the obstacles that cause many differences among us Whether at work or among friends and even with people who barely know us they may be Is the inability to communicate with others So Was to communicate with other arts Andrew Carnegie pay a million dollars a year, Charles Schwab, equivalent (3000 dollars per day) ... Why ???!!!
Is it because Schwab was a genius?
No
Is it because he was known for iron manufacturing know more than others?
No
There is from among the employees who know more than
But the reason is its ability to deal with people
Says: I consider my ability to arouse the enthusiasm of the staff is the greatest _khasaúsa
I do not criticize one never
Give people an incentive to work
I hate hunting mistakes
Sincere in Asthsana
Cream in eulogistic
Carnegie when he died .. Written on his grave
Here lies a person knew how to gather around him men were smarter than
Start your own
When I was young and free and there were no limits to the imagination
I dreamed of changing the world
When I grew up
And become more aware and mature, I discovered that the world will not change
Therefore, reduced my wish and I decided to change only a national .. But this disease is very difficult ..
When they reached the stage of complete maturity decided to change only my family and I could not also achieve that
I am in another life I realized suddenly ....
That: if I had changed myself first, because if I could change my family. Thanks to you Sakdraly encourage them to improve national and who knows?
Perhaps you could Ogiralaalm whole
Thought
- Walt Disney was fired from his job as an editor in the newspaper to his lack of good ideas
The Walt Disney went bankrupt several times before the construction of Disneyland
- Thomas Edison The teacher said of him that he was stupid to learn anything
- The Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four years old, describing him as a mentor Butti mentally and uneducated
- Henry Ford went bankrupt 5 times before they finally succeed
- Have been killed, and Winston Churchill in the sixth grade
No man who so self-sufficient
Each of us needs to do things others can by providing
And you have yourself to other things needed
All our dealings with people but based on those needs
Fair trade
Human nature is like a social form relationships and building friendships
And common sense desorb full isolation and convergence deplores and rejects the others drop out of
It is noticeable that the individual no matter how introverted he seeks to form relationships with others, and that was limited ..
It is difficult and perhaps impossible for him to retreat to the self and others dispensed
The art of dealing ... the key to people's hearts
Dealing with people the art of the most important art
Due to the different natures
It is not never easy to attain the respect and appreciation of others
On the other hand is very easy to lose it all
As it is said: demolition is always easier than construction
If you can provide to build a good deal of good, this Sasaadk you in the first place because you will feel the people you love and are keen to Mkhalttk
Is happy to mix with and feel more pleasure dealing with you
Dealing with people from the art to be learned, and useful skill acquisition, and lifestyle required proficiency
Human motivation
When it comes to the completion of work with others
Each of us own assessment of priorities
In addition to adopting the positions of prior psychological
In the sense that each of us has a set of priorities and a list of what is written we need to do
Human relations is the science dealing with the way people are not taken to the prejudice in themselves or ourselves
- Do raise a strong desire in others
A man is afraid of criticism as much as his thirst for praise
Cash is not pointless
Where it puts the person on the defensive and usually makes him looking for an excuse
What we want from life
- Success
- Happiness
Scientific studies have proven that if you learned how to deal with others, you may be cut
-85% Of the road to success
- And 99% by way of personal happiness
Ie that 15% of success is due to technological training and to the minds and skill in job performance
And 85% of success is due to factors personal to themselves and the ability to deal successfully with people
It also reminds one of the studies that
There are two out of three have lost their jobs because of their failure to deal successfully with people