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| The feeling must be mutual |
The feeling must be mutual.
Magnetic attraction between people is always a two-way tango. The people you can attract are those who already have it within them the tendency to like someone like you. (Ditto for the people you’re attracted to.)
So it makes no sense for you to fret and work your way into everyone’s hearts. (They don’t even do this in show business.) After all, you only need to find one true love, and
true friends.
If you spend your energy chasing and seducing “dream mates” who don’t quite take to you, pretty soon you’ll get tired of one-sided situations and run out of steam. You might even become depressed with yourself for having failed at love, and lose your joie de vivre. A magnetic personality requires that kind of joyous energy to run for years on end—it’s energy you can’t afford to run out of!
Magnetic attraction between people is always a two-way tango. The people you can attract are those who already have it within them the tendency to like someone like you. (Ditto for the people you’re attracted to.)
So it makes no sense for you to fret and work your way into everyone’s hearts. (They don’t even do this in show business.) After all, you only need to find one true love, and
true friends.
If you spend your energy chasing and seducing “dream mates” who don’t quite take to you, pretty soon you’ll get tired of one-sided situations and run out of steam. You might even become depressed with yourself for having failed at love, and lose your joie de vivre. A magnetic personality requires that kind of joyous energy to run for years on end—it’s energy you can’t afford to run out of!
