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| It’s not about you. |
It’s not about you.
Being a people-magnet means you have self-confidence, but not the narcissism. Too much ego or focus on self tends to distract you from noticing the needs of other people, including the person you wish would become your one true love.
An attractive person isn’t just someone who’s pretty or handsome. That person genuinely values the dignity and feelings of other people; he or she empathizes with others enough to balance out any “me-first” tendencies. A peoplemagnet will, without having to really think about it, listen to others just as much as he or she will talk, simply because it’s a pleasant and human thing to do.
The last thing a truly attractive person will do is to swagger into a room (in effect), and talk about how sexy, rich or smart he or she is (which turns off a lot of people)! The same effect happens when a would-be “magnet” tries to manipulate events in order to falsely impress others with his or her socalled abilities or character attributes. He or she may fool a few people for a time, but eventually the act wears thin.
If you want to attract the one you want, just remember: it’s not always about you. You must be clear-headed and perceptive enough to understand what makes other people tick (especially your dream mate). You have to respect them as human beings, with your every thought, act or word. When you have this empathy and understanding, it becomes very easy for you to know precisely what will get certain people to like you.
More specifically, you will know what it is about your true self that will make your dream mate fall for you.
Being a people-magnet means you have self-confidence, but not the narcissism. Too much ego or focus on self tends to distract you from noticing the needs of other people, including the person you wish would become your one true love.
An attractive person isn’t just someone who’s pretty or handsome. That person genuinely values the dignity and feelings of other people; he or she empathizes with others enough to balance out any “me-first” tendencies. A peoplemagnet will, without having to really think about it, listen to others just as much as he or she will talk, simply because it’s a pleasant and human thing to do.
The last thing a truly attractive person will do is to swagger into a room (in effect), and talk about how sexy, rich or smart he or she is (which turns off a lot of people)! The same effect happens when a would-be “magnet” tries to manipulate events in order to falsely impress others with his or her socalled abilities or character attributes. He or she may fool a few people for a time, but eventually the act wears thin.
If you want to attract the one you want, just remember: it’s not always about you. You must be clear-headed and perceptive enough to understand what makes other people tick (especially your dream mate). You have to respect them as human beings, with your every thought, act or word. When you have this empathy and understanding, it becomes very easy for you to know precisely what will get certain people to like you.
More specifically, you will know what it is about your true self that will make your dream mate fall for you.
